The pursuit of monetising every aspect of our relationships has led Mark Zuckerberg to suggest that artificial intelligence might forge new friendships. Yet, as columnist Neil Steinberg points out, genuine friendship is a unique bond that no algorithm can replicate.
Drawing from his own experiences, Steinberg shares stories that highlight the richness of true connection. He recalls a bike ride with a friend that led to meeting a lifeguard named Laura, who eventually became his friend’s wife for an amazing 43 years. Such bonds, nurtured by shared moments and deep understanding, can never be reduced to a simple transaction.
Zuckerberg’s claim that the average American has fewer than three friends is met with skepticism. Steinberg challenges the data, reminding us that real friendship provides not only companionship but also unwavering support and understanding through life’s challenges. While AI may streamline some interactions, it misses the warmth and spontaneity of human connection.
Steinberg also examines the various forms of friendship—from lifelong confidants to casual work acquaintances—emphasising that these relationships are not commodities to be bought or sold. He recounts how some friends drift apart due to success or distance, yet their impact remains enduring.
A particularly moving example is that of a friend named Didier, who, despite rarely making a call, welcomed Steinberg’s son into his home during an internship in Washington, D.C. Gestures like these, rooted in loyalty and empathy, remind us of the irreplaceable nature of true friendship.
Ultimately, Steinberg’s message is clear: while AI might offer convenience, it cannot capture the authenticity and warmth of human friendships. As he aptly puts it, friendship isn’t, Zuckerberg—just another moneymaking scheme.
